不要對有抑郁癥的人說這些
If you want to help a loved one with depression, telling them to "cheer up", is not the answer. Depression is an illness and as such, it's completely different from feeling upset or sad. On Reddit, people with depression have been sharing the things they wish people would stop saying to try and make them feel happier.
如果你很想幫助患有抑郁癥的愛人，那對他們說"振作起來"并不是答案。抑郁是一種疾病，因此與沮喪或傷心完全不同。在Reddit網站上，患有抑郁癥的人分享了那些他們不希望再聽到的想讓他們開心點的話。
Avoid these phrases and if you're stuck for what to say or do instead, check out our feature on how to support someone with depression.
不要再說這些話了，如果你不知道該說什么，可以看看我們如何支持抑郁癥患者的特輯。
1. "People have it worse than you do."
1. "還有人比你更慘呢。"
2. "For me personally when I was younger it was the 'you've got your whole life ahead of you.' My thought was always 'oh great so I have to suffer longer?'"
2. "于我個人而言，當我年輕的時候，我不希望聽到'你還有美好的前程等著你呢。'我的想法就是'真棒，我還要受更久的折磨？'"
3. "You don't have a reason to be depressed."
3. "你沒有理由抑郁啊。"
4. "Cheer up."
4. "振作起來。"
5. "It wouldn't kill you to smile you know."
5. "你要知道，笑一下又不會死。"
6. "Just get over it."
6. "克服一下吧。"
7. "'Happiness is a choice.' Bitch you think I made the conscious decision to be like this?"
7. "'幸福是種選擇。'賤人，你以為我是故意抑郁？"
8. "Snap out of it."
8. "擺脫抑郁吧。"
9. "'Just think happy thoughts and the sad ones will go away.' Do you honestly think I would be depressed if getting rid of it was as simple as thinking of happy things?"
9. "'只要想想開心的事情，傷心就會消散的。'如果只要想想開心的事情就能擺脫抑郁，你覺得我能這么抑郁嗎？"
10. "You just have to let it go. Your problem is you're focusing on the negative."
10. "你必須放手。你的問題就是太關注消極的事情了。"
11. "You are a straight, white male. Why don't you realise how privileged you are?"
11. "你是個白人直男。為什么不看看自己的天生優勢呢？"
12. "Don't worry, it might not happen".
12. "別擔心，也許不會發生呢。"
13. "You just need to find hobbies and stay busy!"
13. "只要找到愛好，忙起來就好了！"
14. "It's like you're not even trying to get better."
14. "好像你甚至都不想讓事情變好一樣。"
15. "'I had depression I know how it feels.' No, you had temporary depression. My depression is chronic. Life long. Yours was triggered by an event, now your depression is gone. Mine is not. They are totally different."
15. "'我也抑郁過，我知道是什么感受。'不，你那只是暫時性抑郁。我的抑郁癥是慢性的。你的是被特定事件激起的，現在你已經不抑郁了。但我不是，這是完全不同的。"
If you want to help a loved one with depression, telling them to "cheer up", is not the answer. Depression is an illness and as such, it's completely different from feeling upset or sad. On Reddit, people with depression have been sharing the things they wish people would stop saying to try and make them feel happier.
如果你很想幫助患有抑郁癥的愛人，那對他們說"振作起來"并不是答案。抑郁是一種疾病，因此與沮喪或傷心完全不同。在Reddit網站上，患有抑郁癥的人分享了那些他們不希望再聽到的想讓他們開心點的話。
Avoid these phrases and if you're stuck for what to say or do instead, check out our feature on how to support someone with depression.
不要再說這些話了，如果你不知道該說什么，可以看看我們如何支持抑郁癥患者的特輯。
1. "People have it worse than you do."
1. "還有人比你更慘呢。"
2. "For me personally when I was younger it was the 'you've got your whole life ahead of you.' My thought was always 'oh great so I have to suffer longer?'"
2. "于我個人而言，當我年輕的時候，我不希望聽到'你還有美好的前程等著你呢。'我的想法就是'真棒，我還要受更久的折磨？'"
3. "You don't have a reason to be depressed."
3. "你沒有理由抑郁啊。"
4. "Cheer up."
4. "振作起來。"
5. "It wouldn't kill you to smile you know."
5. "你要知道，笑一下又不會死。"
6. "Just get over it."
6. "克服一下吧。"
7. "'Happiness is a choice.' Bitch you think I made the conscious decision to be like this?"
7. "'幸福是種選擇。'賤人，你以為我是故意抑郁？"
8. "Snap out of it."
8. "擺脫抑郁吧。"
9. "'Just think happy thoughts and the sad ones will go away.' Do you honestly think I would be depressed if getting rid of it was as simple as thinking of happy things?"
9. "'只要想想開心的事情，傷心就會消散的。'如果只要想想開心的事情就能擺脫抑郁，你覺得我能這么抑郁嗎？"
10. "You just have to let it go. Your problem is you're focusing on the negative."
10. "你必須放手。你的問題就是太關注消極的事情了。"
11. "You are a straight, white male. Why don't you realise how privileged you are?"
11. "你是個白人直男。為什么不看看自己的天生優勢呢？"
12. "Don't worry, it might not happen".
12. "別擔心，也許不會發生呢。"
13. "You just need to find hobbies and stay busy!"
13. "只要找到愛好，忙起來就好了！"
14. "It's like you're not even trying to get better."
14. "好像你甚至都不想讓事情變好一樣。"
15. "'I had depression I know how it feels.' No, you had temporary depression. My depression is chronic. Life long. Yours was triggered by an event, now your depression is gone. Mine is not. They are totally different."
15. "'我也抑郁過，我知道是什么感受。'不，你那只是暫時性抑郁。我的抑郁癥是慢性的。你的是被特定事件激起的，現在你已經不抑郁了。但我不是，這是完全不同的。"
