關(guān)于面子問題About Face

　　There is an old saying in Chinapeople need face while the trees need skin，the meaning is that Chinese people pay special attention on the dignity. Loving face is most peoples behavior, so they like to brag, they enjoy being adored by others. About the face problem, I think we should not take it serious, we are not living for other people, we are living for ourselves. The real self-esteem is from our hearts, not from other people. Chinese people like to brag, they brag about their property, hoping that people will respect him. The funny thing is that only the fake successful people will brag, the real one is silent, they keep working hard, the successful career supports their self-esteem. If we want people to respect us, we should show our reality, be nice to them, never brag about ourselves.

　　在中國(guó)有句老話人要臉樹要皮，意思是中國(guó)人很注重尊嚴(yán)問題。愛面子是大多數(shù)人的習(xí)慣，他們喜歡吹噓，享受被人崇拜。關(guān)于面子問題，我認(rèn)為我們不應(yīng)該把它看得很重，我們不是為別人而活，是為自己而活。真正的自尊是出于我們的內(nèi)心，不是看別人。中國(guó)人喜歡吹牛，他們夸大自己的財(cái)產(chǎn)，希望人們尊重他們。有趣的是只有不成功的人才會(huì)吹牛，真正成功的人是沉默的，他們努力工作，事業(yè)的成功支撐著他們的自尊。如果我們想要?jiǎng)e人尊重我們，我們應(yīng)該展示我們真實(shí)的一面，對(duì)人友好，不要吹牛。